Relationship, Sex Therapy, & Intimacy Coaching
Available for hourly sessions!
Relationship, Sex Therapy & Intimacy Coaching for a More Connected, Confident, and Fulfilling Sexual Life
At Desire OKC, I support individuals and couples who want deeper intimacy, clearer communication, and a more satisfying sexual relationship. Many clients come to me with concerns such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, vaginismus or pain during sex, low libido, sexual trauma, or a sense of disconnection in their relationship. These challenges are often symptoms of something deeper—stress, emotional overwhelm, unresolved trauma, or a lack of confidence and embodied self‑trust.
My work integrates neuroscience, somatic awareness, trauma‑informed care, and practical coaching tools to help you understand the internal and external influences shaping your sexual desire, pleasure, and relational patterns. When you understand your body, your nervous system, and your emotional landscape, you gain the power to create the intimacy you truly want.
A Safe, Supportive Exploration of Your Intimacy & Sexual History
Everyone deserves a connected, empowered, and pleasurable intimate life. In our work together, we explore your sexual history, relationship patterns, desires, boundaries, and the places where you may feel stuck or disconnected. Sex therapy and intimacy coaching never involve touch from the practitioner; instead, we focus on education, emotional processing, somatic awareness, communication skills, and personalized strategies for healing and growth.
My role is to guide you with compassion, clarity, and grounded expertise—so you can move toward the intimacy, confidence, and connection you desire.
Building Confidence & Embodied Self‑Trust
Many clients seek support not only for sexual concerns, but also for rebuilding confidence and reconnecting with their bodies. I help individuals and couples:
- Strengthen emotional resilience
- Rebuild trust in themselves and their desires
- Develop embodied confidence in intimacy
- Release shame, fear, or performance pressure
- Cultivate self‑love and self‑acceptance
Confidence is not something you “think” your way into—it’s something you practice through nervous system regulation, somatic awareness, and aligned action. Together, we create a pathway toward feeling grounded, empowered, and fully present in your intimate life.
Coaching for Relationship Expansion, Swinging, Ethical Non‑Monogamy & Kink/BDSM Exploration
Many people are curious about exploring beyond traditional monogamy, but don’t know where to begin. I offer non‑judgmental, trauma‑informed coaching for individuals and couples who want to explore:
- Opening their relationship
- Swinging or lifestyle experiences
- Ethical non‑monogamy or polyamory
- Kink, BDSM, or power‑exchange dynamics
- Desire exploration and sexual authenticity
We focus on communication, boundaries, consent, emotional safety, and the practical tools needed to explore with clarity and intention. Whether you’re curious, experienced, or navigating challenges within an open dynamic, I provide a grounded, supportive space to help you move forward with confidence and connection.
New Offer:
Couple’s Intensive Weekend
This immersive therapeutic and coaching experience is designed for couples who want to make meaningful progress in a short amount of time. Together, we focus on bonding, healing, communication, intimacy, and relationship repair or expansion.
This intensive can also support couples who want to explore:
- Opening their relationship
- Creating agreements for ethical non‑monogamy
- Strengthening trust and emotional safety
- Exploring sexuality, kink, or new dynamics
Choose between:
- 1‑day (6 hours)
- 2‑day (12 hours)
To schedule, call
405-420-7877. (Intensives are not available for online booking.)
Ongoing Support Beyond Intensives
In addition to intensives, I offer ongoing therapy and coaching for individuals and couples who want continued support in:
- Strengthening communication
- Rebuilding intimacy
- Navigating relationship transitions
- Exploring non‑monogamy or kink
- Deepening emotional and sexual connection
- Developing confidence and self‑trust
Whether you’re healing, expanding, or reinventing your relationship, you don’t have to navigate it alone.
Charity’s Motto:
Sex is Beautiful, Love Thyself
“As a sex therapist and coach, I encourage my clients to treat the body like a sacred vessel. Regular massages, warm baths, saunas, breathwork, meditation, and any form of intentional self‑care nourish not only the body, but the soul. If you’re struggling with desire, confidence, or connection, start with loving yourself first.”
- Charity Danker, Sexologist & Certified Sex Therapist
*Cash and debit card payments are accepted.